It’s very common in our today’s world to see a lot of girls jump into bed on a first date with a man.
‘Everybody is doing that’ but should you?
You just met a man who speaks with a romantic voice and he asked you to go on a date with him.
You agree no problem with that. He buys whatever you request for on that night.
You smile at every bit of words that comes from his mouth.
He touches you and caresses you.
And all of a sudden, you are falling, he lures you into a room and you foolishly have sex with him.
You don’t know this man, you’ve never met him before, you don’t know where he comes from nor his family and you already had sex with him on the very first date.
I will give you just two reasons why you shouldn’t have sex with a man on a first date.
1. You just met the man.
You don’t know anything about him. Is he a ghost? You don’t know if he bathes regularly or washes his under-wear. You don’t know if he has a sexually transmitted disease or not and you went ahead sharing the same bed with the unknown man.
2. Yes! No doubt, he confesses his undying and unwavering love for you and you believe him.
If you have sex with him on that night, how would you know he doesn’t do same to other girls he encounters?
Am sure you don’t want to entangle yourself with someone who is easily aroused when he sees women.
That kind of man cannot make a good boy friend or husband material.
I know your mind would say ‘am ripe, I need to get into action’ and that urge is always there but, should you?
There are many ways to learn a more about a man on a first date not including sex into it.
How do you feel having sex with the unknown man and after that night, he is nowhere to be found?-he has dumped you.
You deserve something better and so be wise.